Good Wife, Good Mother

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s it a false dichotomy to categorize good personal qualities into those of a good wife and those of a good mother? Obviously some things definitely fit into both, and God’s prototype would likely be in the overlap of any Venn diagram one might try to make. But are the roles of a wife and a mother so intertwined that categorization is not meaningful?

I’m sure some would vigorously make the case for the two being entirely separate. But are they truly independent?